{"id":13810,"date":"2023-02-11T15:33:55","date_gmt":"2023-02-11T08:33:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/feltjungle.com\/?p=13810"},"modified":"2024-07-29T17:17:55","modified_gmt":"2024-07-29T10:17:55","slug":"cung-con-ren-luyen-tu-duy-tich-cuc-trong-cuoc-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/feltjungle.com\/tin-tuc\/cung-con-ren-luyen-tu-duy-tich-cuc-trong-cuoc-song\/","title":{"rendered":"Ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft: C\u00f9ng con r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c – ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tin v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau qu\u00fd.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1edf. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y m\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u1eady ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y cho con tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

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1.\u00a0 Ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00f9ng con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ba m\u1eb9 v\u00ec th\u1ebf mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y con s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec ba m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con, ba m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c v\u00e0 ch\u1ebf gi\u1ec5u m\u00e0 n\u00ean d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb ng\u1eef nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con nh\u01b0: \u201cL\u1ea7n sau con ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u00e9, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d, \u201cL\u1ea7n t\u1edbi con c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n ch\u00fat n\u1eefa th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1c quan con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen l\u1ea1c quan, vui v\u1ebb, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u01b0\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1edbi h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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2. H\u00e3y quan t\u00e2m con to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n t\u1eeb th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n:<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ba m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba m\u1eb9 quan t\u00e2m, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh. gi\u00fap Ba m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 \u00f4m \u1ea5p, ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9, v\u00ec th\u1ebf con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i ng\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ea1o th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u:<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ba m\u1eb9 t\u1ea1o cho con th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh con hay c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n th\u1eadt b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t con theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i si\u00eau th\u1ecb d\u1eb7n b\u00e9 r\u1eb1ng: \u201ch\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 cho ph\u00e9p con mua m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i duy nh\u1ea5t th\u00f4i nh\u00e9. V\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn si\u00eau th\u1ecb c\u1ea7n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho con \u0111i c\u00f9ng n\u1eefa\u201d. H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen cho tr\u1ebb khi con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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4. X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho con. Kh\u00f4ng ai ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00ec th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n, suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe.<\/p>\n

5. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp cho con s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh:<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 li\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 con ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho con nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i hay g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap qua m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

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6. Lu\u00f4n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 con y\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u01a1n. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. B\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1c quan h\u01a1n, d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n con g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i<\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eady n\u00ean l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y n\u00ean c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba m\u1eb9 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con t\u1eeb s\u1edbm. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng to l\u1edbn sau:<\/p>\n